I talk to people everyday who have a aspiration they want to pursue. Often two people have the same (or very similar goal), yet they way they view the probability for success can be extremely different.
One person sees his target as impossible and acts accordingly – gaining little knowledge, contacts, or opportunities. His behavior make that impossible goal just that IMPOSSIBLE – even if he could have achieved it.
The second person sees the challenging reality of her goal and yet knows if anyone has accomplished it, she has a chance. As a result, she puts forth the effort and gains help, guidance, and access to resources that lead her to success.
Same goal. Very different outcome.
Just a thought.
Have a great day,