Many people start goals, yet fewer complete them and live their dreams.
So what can get you over the finish line?
Clearly there are many factors, but I would like to focus on two today. I call them the Success Combo of Why and How.
- “Why” gives you the sense of commitment, purpose, and motivation to continue moving ahead when you face challenges, obstacles, and the like. Digging into the why is worth the time, the effort, and making a priority. Simon Simek, believes everything starts with why and has one of the all-time most watched TED talk on the subject. Listen and learn.
- “How” is the second and complementary factor for success. While why is foundational, adding how to the mix will increase your chances of achieving your goal. Someone I met recently told me that when you are building out your plan / approach for accomplishing your goal, you need to ask yourself how 7-10 times to get to the tactics. I would add – with all of the “hows” keep an open mind as things unfold.
So, mobilize this success power combo – today and for years to come.
Have a great day,
When I noticed that Samir Wagle, President and CEO of Protein Bar was speaking at Chicago Booth, I was all in (despite the 7:15 a. m. start time).
Samir is committed, knowledgeable, and very intelligent. While he shared many things, one really stuck in my mind. It was this: Genius is not how smart you are in the conventional sense of the word. One is a “genius” when even the seemingly negative things in life are clearly and quickly seen as opportunities for gain – and that you have the wherewithal to capitalize on these lessons.
So, are you a “genius” today?
“Hey, Anita, had could one goal be enough?” you may think.
Well, I am not suggesting that you have just one goal in a lifetime.
That said, being able to focus your time, efforts, and resources toward one key goal at a time can accelerate your advancement, success, and satisfaction.
Have a great day,
Some people believe that to really succeed you need to know your passion and follow it.
What if you don’t have a particular passion at a specific time?
Well, I would say that many people fall into that category (myself included at times).
So what is a person to do? Consider following your curiosity. Find something about which you are curious and then learn more about it. Who knows what might follow from that: a new hobby? new career? new friends? Opportunities abound.
Have fun with it,
I have been reading Elizabeth Gilbert’s book, Big Magic. One thing that really struck me was how she suggested that while doing what you love is great, be sure that your work loves you, too. You may wonder why is this important? From my personal experience, when my work “loves” me, I have more focused energy, inner motivation, and greater innovative ideas, solutions, and effectiveness.
So, I would suggest as you review your own work situation, look at what you gain as well as what you give each day. This perspective will help you be even more successful and enjoy what you do and the people with whom you work.
I attended an event last night with Hap Klopp, the founder and former President of The North Face. He talked about how there is a fine line between failure and success. It often depends on if you see a challenge as an impediment that could lead to failure or an opportunity that could create economic and social value.
Think about it this way: the next time you approach a problem, assume there is an opportunity waiting for you.
Enjoy your weekend,
Bold BabyStepping may seem like an oxymoron, but it actually isn’t. Tiny steps can help us create forward motion, accelerated momentum, and increased capacity. Yet if the actions are too small they may not power us to keep going and achieve our goals and dreams.
Think of Bold BabyStepping as actions that are accessible and yet stretch us (even a bit). Taking one Bold BabyStep after another results in inspiration and encouragement for ourselves and others.
So experiment and report back.
We are almost at the end of the first month of the year. How are your goals proceeding?
It’s time to take even a few tiny steps.
Start now. Tomorrow can always be in the future. Make tomorrow today.
I was chatting with someone this week who looked happier than I have ever seen her look. When I asked how she was, she told me about a small change she made that had a big impact.
It was this: in the past, she chose a goal, did her homework to feel prepared, and then should have taken action and didn’t. “Anita,” she said. Each time I was ready to leap, I wavered and this led to half-completed goals, disappointment, and frustration. Now, I still do my prep and then when I feel prepared, I act and don’t second guess myself.”
Clearly my friend’s banishing wavering has made all the difference for her and perhaps for you and me, too.
Since I was a child, I was taught to do things with an eye toward perfection. Most people will actually get on board with a commitment to doing the absolute best. What if making it perfect actually deters action. In fact, what if wanting to be perfect is a fancy and socially acceptable way of letting fear get the best of us?
If a drive toward perfection is getting the best of you, take even a teeny tiny step. Then you say “no” to fear and “yes” to creating a foundation of greater success and happiness.
Have a great day,