If success comes second, what comes first?
This is a tricky question to answer, as the responses could be quite varied. That said, there is one answer that is a consistently good one and that is: you must know what success means to you – not anyone else, but you. If you fail to make time to define success on your terms, no matter how much money, fame, and other goodies you acquire, it will never be enough.
So define success first and then your efforts will match your goals.