I have heard again and again that the heart matters most. Why? When I was a teenager I thought that meant that I needed to find the perfect date and turn him into someone who loved me unconditionally. Please don’t judge me, I was an adolescent.
Later, I came to realize that the heart matters because it is the compass, map, and driver in my live. When I come from helplessness and blame, that is what I see and feel. Yet when my heart is filled with appreciation, I have a MUCH better outlook and experience of love and life.
After all, the heart IS most important.