There’s a Way

I have a friend, whom I’ve known for a long time. She is super bright, has worked at major global companies, and graduated from one of the top schools in the world. She is struggling with how to find her next role and an environment that is consistent with her values and will value her.

Move Ahead

If you seem to be stuck and are not sure that your goal is doable, take an action based on where you are today. Vary it even a little from what you have done in the past. When you make a small change, you will learn something – what to continue to do, what to

Believe in Others

It’s amazing what can happen when someone believes in you. While it’s important to be self-motivated, knowing that someone else can see your value can do wonders to give you the ability stretch, have courage, and keep going during the rough spots. So today, reach out and let someone know that you believe in him

The Matter of Mattering

Some time ago, I moderated a panel with a stellar group of students from the University of Chicago Booth School of Business. As I am known to do, I wrote a thank you note (with a little card inside with a second note) to each student. About a week later, I received an email from

Your Greatest Weakness

The place of our greatest weakness is often invisible to us. I believe that we only begin to notice it when things don’t go according to how we hope they would – not landing a job, finding a relationship, or getting funding for our venture. This weakness emerges where you lack confidence and you “demonstrate”

Why Change

Change is ever-present, so we need to get on board or be left behind. I personally find change a bit scary until I actually take a step. So to make it easy on yourself. I suggest that you find something you control and you feel capable, comfortable, and even excited about doing. This will give

Just Don’t Do It

There may be times when it seems easy to give up on a person who is just too difficult to deal with. Yet, don’t do it. At that moment, you have an opportunity to grow enough to help the person, and in doing so, create a better life for both of you. Warmly, Anita

Speak Up

Many people say that if you don’t ask, you can’t give people the opportunity to help you. So speak up. Graciously let others know what you want and need and be a resource to others – early and often. Have a great day, Anita

The Benefits of Being Shy

I know that probably no one who knows me would think I am shy, but in my heart I am. I have training myself to be more outgoing and I did it from a place of low risk and safety. I learned this from one of my aunts. Many years ago, my Aunt Sylvia, was

Between Hope and Challenge

I was with a group of friends yesterday and the conversation veered in the direction of the interplay of hope and challenge. While hope is a great motivator and starting point, it’s important to keep in mind that challenges will come – if for no other reason than to help you grow. The questions become